RaveAutostraddle... moving ... vulnerable, honest, and unabashed, so fully itself; beautiful and poetic and painful, and often very funny—a story of transition, a document of a life. Not an indictment or self-flagellating question of what took so long, but an honest admission — maybe even an honoring — that queer people live their lives on their own timeline. That we come out if and when we’re able, when it’s safe and right, when we have the space, the language, and the models to know who we are, and what we might be.