RaveVanity Fair\" ... Piper Weiss in her gorgeous, moody, and evocative memoir You All Grow Up and Leave Me: A Memoir of Teenage Obsession, published this week ... Her book is half coming-of-age story and half exhaustively researched true crime ... Her descriptions of privilege in the book are complicated; when reporters comes to the schools Wilenksy’s students attended, there was an unspoken rule not to speak to the press ... As the true-crime genre goes, Weiss’s retelling is respectful, eschewing sensationalism for self investigation, insightful metaphor, and lyrical turns of phrase.\