PositiveThe Columbia JournalThrough a combination of extensive interviews with young men and sociological research, the book seeks to move beyond the space of think pieces written by men and actually include them in the conversation. It gives readers a digestible overview of the problem ... In between introducing terms like \'feminist fuckboy\' and \'Golden Dick Syndrome,\' the book also tells stories of boys that are largely neglected in society’s sex conversations ... Most moving are the stories of young men who are victims of abuse, how it often comes as a result of their fears of straying from gender expectations ... These narratives further complicate Orenstein’s problem and make the book a more interesting read ... What I came away understanding is that regardless of how a boy identifies, he is probably confused ... I believe people of all ages can benefit from reading Orenstein’s book and that it can inspire change for the better for all.