RaveStar TribuneDinners With Ruth is really three excellent books: a memoir of Nina Totenberg\'s relatively blessed life; an anecdotal account of Ruth Bader Ginsburg\'s; and, finally, a paean to the bond of friendship, which, like fine wine, gets better with age. It is so engagingly written, so captivating, it\'s difficult not to feel at least a little jealous of Totenberg, who seems to have it all ... The book is filled with so much love it\'s almost an antidote to the daily news section. Almost.